7th Anniversary: Special Anniversary Gifts for Husband to Mark 7 Years Together

As much as you love each other, after seven years most couples have settled into a comfortable comaradrie or are too involved with the mundane aspects of daily life to leave much room for romance. An anniversary is the perfect opportunity to revive the spark, reconnect as a couple and for a day take a break from home, work and children to focus on just each other. Give him romantic gifts and things loaded with sentiment; you are never too old for romance.

Use the anniversary as an oppurtunity to give him things he needs or personal items which could do with an upgrade. Could he do with a nice new watch, or has his worn wallet become a bit of an eyesore but he won't part with it on his own? Men can often neglect certain aspects of their life but you can step in and give him things he really needs - like a beautiful wool scarf, warm gloves, a new set of luggage if he travels often, or a nice shaving kit.

What are some of the things he absolutely loves to do? Be it watching cricket with his friends, scouring travel websites for the next exciting holiday, whipping up a feast in the kitchen or tinkering with the latest gadgets - there is a way to make his hobbies more enjoyable. Buy him things that will take his passion or leisure time to the next level or things he has been wanting to get but hasn't. Anniversaries warrant lavish presents and if he has been trying to curb his expenses you can go right ahead and spoil your man.

Things symbolic of your seven years together are ideal gift options and if you have a soft spot for traditional gifts then both copper and wool have been associated with seven years of marriage. The metal copper is durable and has a beautiful tone, signifying the strength of a marriage. It has long been associated with good fortune and prosperity, in the case of marriage symbolic of the couple’s good luck in finding each other. Wool on the other hand denotes warmth and comfort, and the security that comes with having so many years together.

With time the traditional gifts became supplemented with modern interpretations like brass and desk sets. Also a beautiful metal, the golden hued brass signifies strength and and an enduring relationship, much like copper. Buy him office and desk accessories accentuated with brass, such as clocks, desk organisers, paper weight or even small figurines. Desk sets are a practical gift and are a reflection of the practical aspects of a marriage and the harmonious daily life the couple has led.

The sense of intimacy that comes in after years of living together cannot be compared to the flush of new love. Grand gestures are gradually replaced by subtle messages and a quiet understanding. You have reached the stage where your gifts are meant for him alone, much like the volumes of communication exchanged with a single glance. This Hidden Message Tie Clip made of copper is just the thing to give him on the 7th anniversary. The tie clip can be monogrammed with his essentials in front, and contain a private message for him on the back. The hand stamped tie clip can be ordered at Etsy from JLynnCreations for about Rs.950.

Few things are used as frequently as a wallet and if you want to be constantly on his mind, a wallet is the way to go. But since it is your 7th anniversary, go one step ahead and make it extra special by slipping something inside before you give it to him - a lovely picture of the two of you, a gift card, or for a more sentimental touch, a message card.

For the wallet we suggest Hidesign Mens Leather 1 Fold Wallet, which has been crafted for durability with fine quality leather. Two slip pockets, multiple slots for cards and a coin pocket will keep him organised. Buy it from[shoppersstop.com for Rs.1,795.

Slip a wallet insert inside with a special message. These beautiful Handstamped Wallet Insert Cards made with copper can be customised and are perfect for 7th anniversary. Tell him how much you love him in your own words, and let these words be a permanent reminder for him in his wallet. The card comes with a 5 star rating based on 2790 reviews on Etsy where you can buy it for about Rs.1,010 from MetalandIdea.

Mufflers and scarves are used not only to shield the neck from the cold but also as fashion accessories. A well matched muffler can enhance the clothes he is wearing and complete change his look. A woollen scarf can even be your symbolic 7th anniversary gift. Even if the weather isn’t cold, he can hold on to it till it does turn cool.

This Alvaro Castagnino Geometric Muffler is made of viscose, and will accentuate any number of casual as well as formal ensembles. It is 0.3 m wide and 1.7 m in length, meaning he can drape it around his neck as comfortable as tie it into an elegant knot. Buy it for Rs.909 on Ajio.

He has his trusty chronograph that is always strapped onto his wrist but no man’s wardrobe is complete without a statement dress watch that he can wear when he is out about town. The highlight is the looks, but you can look for timepieces that serve an ample dose of functionality in case your husband takes a shine to it and decides to wear it everyday.

You may want to consider Fossil Grant which is fairly well priced at Rs.9,495 and is suitable for all age groups. The most striking feature about this quartz watch is its deep blue leather strap and dial but it also has a 24-hour indicator, chronograph, and small seconds. Featuring large Roman numerals, it is protected by a sapphire crystal glass and is resistant to water up to 50 meters. Buy it on ethoswatches.com.

An elegant desk organisers will help keep his work space free of clutter and add a nice decorative touch to what can often be a boring office desk. It is such a practical gift and is appropriate for a couple that has settled into each others grooves over a period of seven years which leads you to think of sensible, useful gifts that your partner needs. This Wooden Pen Pencil Holder Case Container is made entirely of bamboo and has a lovely natural colour that will enhance any desk. It is a flat, two-piece container for all his pens, erasers, notepads and calculator; he can remove the inside box and use it separately too. Buy it for about Rs.1,887 on fancy.com.

Every man must have a classic leather briefcase or laptop bag. A well designed bag will give him a sophisticated air and they also happen to be durable and useful. Depending on his personal style, pick up a rustic canvas and leather messenger bag, a chic leather briefcase or a sturdy leather laptop bag. These can be used for more than just laptops and are ideal for short work trips as well. If you are looking for a good quality laptop bag we suggest this slim Javier Laptop messenger bag in grey. This laptop bag is made of good quality leather, has an external front pocket, internal zipper compartment, padded for laptop safety and also has a flap opening fitted with a numerical lock. It can be customised with his name or initials monogrammed on the inside of the flap. Order it for Rs.10,560 on adamis.in.

If your heart is bursting with love and you want to shower him with a multitude of sweet and romantic gifts so it feels like the very first anniversary and not the seventh, consider giving him a gift box. These are great fun to put together and fantastic to receive as you can fill it with just about anything that comes to mind; receiving a ton of small gifts is pretty exciting too.

You can put one together yourself and if you are running short on ideas, buy a prepared gift box, like this Crate Full of Love available at Oye Happy which is literally a wooden crate filled with goodies to warm your beloved’s heart. What you will find inside: 2 messages in bottles saying ‘I love the way you make me feel like the most special person in the world with just your presence’ and ‘I just wanted to say I love you sooooooooooooooooooo much’. A cuddle contract that officially binds him to a session of cuddling, a funky greeting card with the message ‘We Have Awesome Chemistry’ that also happens to light up with LED lights. There is a box of cheesy but cute pick up lines, a set of 10 Redeemable Coupons he can use when he wants things like a candle-light dinner, a long drive or a tight hug. There is also a Romantic Pie Chart, Personalised Fridge Magnets and a set of 7 romantic Letters to My Love, and a Pandora’s Box filled with 4 gift boxes with little presents inside. Buy it for Rs.4,950 on oyehappy.com where you can also see more product details.

One of the best ways to mark the passage of seven long years is through a timepiece - either a desk or wall clock or an elegant wristwatch. If you are more drawn to practical and useful gifts then this is a very good choice. We suggest you pair the traditional gift of brass with it and buy him a desk clock made of brass, such this Brass Finish Brass 3 Inch Table Clock by Anantaran. The clock measures 3 inches in diameter and has a lovely vintage look that will add a graceful touch to his desk at work or in his study. Buy it for Rs.1,359 on Pepperfry.

Fine liquor deserves to be served in style and if your man has a taste for the good stuff, he will appreciate a nice decanter to store his favourite drink in. The plus point here is this gift can also be used to increase the style quotient of the house so it’s a win-win for him and you. This Yours, Mine, and Ours Engraved Decanter Set on Uncommon Goods caught our eye. Designed for couples and made from lead-free crystal, glass and silicone, it evokes the geometric flair of art decor. The two glasses for him and you are etched with Yours and Mine, while the decanter bears the word Ours. The decanter holds 680 ml and the glasses about 300 ml. Buy it for Rs.4,239 on Uncommongoods.

Couples often celebrate their anniversaries by renewing their vows, or by exchanging new rings and if replacing his wedding band with a new ring is something you had in mind, buying one set with onyx will be a good idea. These gemstones are traditionally associated with the 7th anniversary and a smart ring will be a nice gift for him. Black onyx in particular lends itself well to men’s jewellery; if he wears pendants and bracelets, you could consider these items of jewellery too. Silver Caiman Ring For Men is a good option. Set in sterling silver, it has a black onyx gemstone set in a classic and simple design. The gemstone is known calming properties and ability to drive away negative emotions, so he can wear it for its healing properties as well as for style. Buy it for Rs.2,400 on Amazon.