10 Gifts for Boyfriend's Parents on Christmas to Win Them Over Plus Other Tips to Charm the Family (2019)

Holidays and festivals can be tricky and strenuous for couples trying to spend time with not only each other, but also giving equal time and attention to their own families as well as their partners' parents, if the couple has been in a committed relationship for long. If you find yourself in a similar situation, then it is your litmus test to win your boyfriend’s parents’ over. Trying to make a mark in their hearts through gifting may be a bit overwhelming, but can be managed well with a few key reminders. When choosing gifts for his folks, look for things that aren’t really common that may not be received well, or an ultra-expensive gift that maybe elegant but won’t be used!

It is best to give them something that they may not really buy for themselves, something that adds to their home décor, is of use in their kitchen or routine life. Discuss their hobbies, interests and lifestyle with their son and gauge if they love pets, whether are tech savvy, adventurous or travel buffs? If they follow an active lifestyle or have some specific health conditions. Whatever you choose, let it be from your heart, so they know that you care enough to make an extra effort in looking after their interests as well.

It doesn’t matter if you’ve known them for a while or meeting them for the first time. If you can, personalise their gift for an extra personal touch. For instance, if the couple enjoys cooking together every now and then, you’d get the a cutting board, which is an essential tool in the kitchen and when you personalise it, it will end up inviting warm and loving thoughts of you, every time it is used! You can choose to engrave the board with either ‘Merry Christmas’ or a lovely quote with their initials etched on the board.

One of the quickest ways of bringing peace and harmony to one’s living environment is identifying the utilitarian use of things are considered luxurious. Crystals are usually viewed as healing tools that can only be used during meditation or for health benefits. But what is less known is the fact that they can be extremely beneficial when included in your living space.

A healing crystal, purple agate is beneficial for inner stability, eliminating and transforming negativity, and create an aura of safety and security, soothing and calm for anyone around it. Agate coasters not only beautify their surrounding with their rich purple color and texture but also look stylish and can infuse some really positive vibrations too! These purple agate coasters are 4” in diameter and 1” in height and are priced at Rs.1,499 at engrave.in.

These days, terrariums are seen as the most optimum, low maintenance, space saving décor items for people living in small spaces. The soil and plants in a terrarium release water vapor which is actually recycling water, which collects onto the vessel walls, seeping down into the soil. Serving as self-nourished plants, terrariums are hence low-maintenance if sealed.

If your boyfriend’s parents enjoy gardening or prefer greenery around them, they would love this pack of fittonia and succulents in a round terrarium contained, which not only purifies the air, but brings in a variety of color, shapes, and sizes – beautifying their living space. This pack of 2 evergreen terrariums is priced at Rs.1,068 on nurserylive.com.

A gift hamper of tea and coffee would be ideal for the couple if one of them enjoys the freshness of tea and the other thrives on a kick start shot of caffeine. Whilst you can explore a variety of tea and coffee products, we recommend the Detox Acai Mango - Herbal Infusion by Goodwyn Tea, which is an antioxidant and comes with an herbal fusion of juicy mango and tangy acai fruit. It comes in a 50 gm tin with loose leaves. Pair it with packs of classic filter coffee, roasted beans or green coffee beans. You can pick and choose and ultimately design a complete hamper of your choice. Prices range between Rs. 60 to Rs.2,000. Or pick your own selection from giftcart.com.

A throw is a little different from a blanket. Smaller in size and created out of a variety of materials a throw can be in fleece or designed as a decorative tapestry. While a tapestry throw is light-weight, it is usually used for beautifying a space, while the fleece throw can be used as a comforter to keep warm while reading a book or watching television. This Graham Stone & Natural Knitted Throw Blanket by Pluchi is made of premium cotton, which keeps the user cool in summer and warm in winter. It is breathable material with a soft feel and is certifiably free of toxic substances. It measures 30 cm x 170 cm in dimension and is priced at Rs.2,599 on Amazon.

Gift your partner’s parents with this beautiful combination of glass and wood, handcrafted as a reindeer lamp! It is powered by a USB port, visually appealing and festive, adding to the Christmas spirit. It comes with a stand, which makes it easy to place the bottle anywhere. A unique décor item the bottle has LED lights inside it, a USB charge cable, a wooden frame with 1 body, 2 legs and 1 pair of horns. Its dimensions are 27 x 14 x 10 cms and is priced at Rs.2,999 on Big Small.

Take the fragrance of some vibrantly colored scented candles in different shapes and sizes as a Christmas gift for your boyfriend’s folks, which would make for a lovely addition to their home décor, add some warmth to the Christmas cold and rejuvenate everyone with their aroma.

Made of natural wax with different blends of essential oils and premium fragrances, these candles are paraffin free and made of natural materials, making them completely safe. Choose a pair or present an assortment of scented candles. You could choose scented candles like Apple Cinnamon, Orange, Vanilla Caramel, Apple Cider, Cinnamon or Christmas styled candles like Caramel, Mistletoe, Coffee, Strawberry or Pumpkin & Cinnamon. The prices range for each, starting at Rs.89. Buy them from Pepperfry.

Delight them with tiny jars filled with some delicious gourmet gifts. The Mini Happiness Box contains tiny jars of preserve, jam, marmalade, mustard and relish which makes for a perfect gift for Christmas. These come enriched with farm fresh fruits, contain less sugar and add a variety of flavors to one’s breakfast table! They can be added to toasts, bagels, pancakes, cakes, pies or smoothies! The gift set includes 5 jars of 45 gm each and is priced at Rs.400 on thegourmetjar.com.

Inspired by genuine Indian motifs and spun with fresh and trending designs, these table linen sets from India Circus have been created keeping mind different sensibilities and with a view to display visually appealing table runners, mixed with beautiful patterns and vibrant colors to give an elegant and charming feel to one’s table space.

While you can choose from an eclectic mix of sets available at indiacircus, we recommend Floors of Flourish Bed and Table Runner which surprises on the outside and displays elegance on the inside, with a picturesque masterpiece, decorated by floors of thriving cheerfulness. The runner is made of high quality polyester-taffeta silk, measuring 56" x 14" and 94" x 14" in dimension. It should be machine washed. The runner is priced at Rs.952.

Christmas is celebrated in India with equal fervor and joy as is any other festival. You can find decorated homes, lights, parties and family or friends gathering to celebrate the spirit of love, light and cheer everywhere! And any celebration in that respect is incomplete without the festive delicacies. Present your boyfriend’s parents with a combination of Christmas goodies and share the love with some handmade sweets.

Some popular Christmas goodies in India are nureos with coconut filling - fluffy and crunchy pastry shells filled with a blend of coconut and dry fruits made according to the Goan tradition; then you have marzipan fruit made from a sweetened paste of almonds that are usually created in the shape of fruits or flowers; you can complement these sweets with walnut fudge. Make them yourself by following the links to the recipes or buy it from someone who makes them home-style and win their hearts!

Pick up Christmas decor like these Christmas Wreath Ball Ornaments by Tinksky. Perfect for decorating the house door, the wall space, staircase or living space, this wreath is beautifully appropriate as a Christmas gift. It adds to the festive atmosphere, brightening up any home and matches all the decorations to emit the Christmas vibe. Priced at Rs.1,014, this wreath is colored silver and blue made of plastic and is 34.5 x 7 x 34.5 cm in dimension. It comes with ball ornaments that are shatter-proof on the wreath.

You can combine some handcrafted wooden bells with the wreath such as these Maya Organic Handcrafted Wooden Christmas Decor: Bells. This set of 6 bells come color dyed, finished with natural lac coating and are priced at Rs.610. Both are available on Amazon.

Men usually get girls to meet their folks when they feel committed to the relationship or feel ready to take the next big step. When the time comes for you to move in that direction, make sure you take appropriate actions to win his folks and do all the right things. When you meet them for the first time, be on time, it is better to be early than late. Be spontaneous, don’t go overboard in sharing information about your life, accomplishments, et all. Just share enough to let them know you a little and enough to let them invite you to know more of the next time.

Participate in a conversation if even you aren’t the subject! Make it an interactive conversation. Let them get to know you and you also actively take interest in what they like doing or not. Use appropriate words or gestures to give a friendly vibe. Speak softly but loud enough so they can understand you. Dress appropriately, choose something that enhances your personality but isn’t loud or too pale. In addition to your behavior, your style, your clothing will also add to the entire meeting experience.

They will be delighted if you offer to help in setting the table or cleaning up after a meal. Express your gratitude and politeness as well where ever required. Be cordial with other guests (if any) and smile at everyone you meet. It is best to express your closeness to your boyfriend only by way of a side hug or a slight kiss on the cheek and not really be clinging to him all the time! Above all, reveal your true self. Don’t display traits you won’t be comfortable taking forward with you or be judged on.