How to Handle Birthdays in a New Relationship + 10 Cute Birthday Gifts for Boyfriend of 1 Month You Can Buy Online (2019)

After dating someone only for a month you get to know certain aspects of his character. But getting to know someone on a deeper level requires a bit more time. If after a month you realise that he is a keeper, then it’s time to invest some time on him.

Getting to know a man better is the first step towards building a healthy relationship. Have conversations with your significant other. Ask about his life, his family, friends and interests. Don’t be overly inquisitive, but show genuine interest when you feel that he is ready to share intimate details of his life. Small details like his favourite food, musical preferences, favourite colour, smells etc. are some of the things that you as the girlfriend should well be aware of. Find out what he likes and what he dislikes as well. That way you can avoid a lot of disagreements and unnecessary fighting later on.

You can tell a lot about a person by his personal taste. It’s one of the things that got you attracted to him in the first place. So find out more about what makes him click and what turns him off. What kind of clothes does he like to wear? Is he more of a simple jeans and t-shirt guy or is his style more flamboyant? Does he like bright colours and prints or does he lean more towards basic hues like black and white? His preferences in food, cuisines, art, and movies are also important factors that will help you decide on the perfect gift for your new boyfriend.

Regular communication is very important when you start a new relationship. Technology has given us multiple platforms to keep in touch with people, so use what’s available to communicate with your boyfriend regularly. No, we won’t suggest calling him up every hour or sending 1000 messages every day. But call him up at least once every night to ask him how his day went and tell him about yours. Message him when you wake up in the morning. Send him links to funny videos and songs that you think he may like. It’s a great way to connect with someone on a deeper level.

Asking is the best way to find out things about a person. Nowadays because of social media we can find out a lot of things even about a stranger. But the social image of a person is often a little different from what they are in real life. Therefore instead of stalking him on Facebook, just ask him about the things which you want to know.

Gifts can be of great help in the process of getting to know a person. But choosing the right gifts for a person who you have known only for a month is not as easy as it sounds. Therefore we at BP Guide have put together a comprehensive guide of gifts that are appropriate for a one month old relationship.

Having lots of experiences together is the one of the best ways to kick start a new relationship. Going to a concert or a show is a great way to bond. Get your boyfriend tickets to a concert or a show. Make sure you know what kind of music he is into before you book your concert tickets. You can book concert tickets online on various websites. Some of the well known websites which sell tickets and passes for concerts and events are stubhub.in and bookmyshow.com.

If your boyfriend is a bookworm then nothing will please him more than getting a great work of literature as a gift. While picking out a book for your boyfriend make sure that he hasn’t read it before. Peruse his bookshelf and note down what books he owns. If he is true book lover, then chances are that he has read all the classics. So buy him something which he may not have read yet like a recent bestseller in his favourite genre.

If your boyfriend likes thrillers then buy him the Woman in the Window by A.J. Finn. This book from the New York Times Bestselling List is nail biting suspense novel about an agoraphobic woman who believes that she witnessed a crime in a neighbouring house. It’s a sophisticated novel set in an urban setting, the perfect read for a lazy Sunday afternoon. Buy the paperback version of this gripping thriller from amazon.in for ₹180.

An instant camera is perfect for freezing a perfect memory forever. Get your boyfriend an instant camera so that you two can take crazy pictures of yourselves. The Fujifilm Instax Mini 8 Instant Film Camera is the perfect gift for your boyfriend. This small and light weight camera has a number of redeeming features. It has automatic exposure measurement, which means that the camera signals the recommended aperture setting with a flashing LED, thus helping capture the perfect photo every time. A new high-key mode helps take brighter but softer pictures, therefore making this camera perfect for portraits and close-ups. The new improved viewfinder gives greater clarity and visibility. Buy it for ₹3,000 from amazon.in.

If you think staying in on a Saturday night is boring then what you need is some great homemade cocktails to bring the party home. To make cocktails at home you need a variety of liquors, fruit juices, condiments and a great cocktail set. Gift your boyfriend the King International Stainless Steel Bar Set.

This stainless steel bar set consists of 6 pieces of accessories-a cocktail shaker, a jigger, a bar spoon, a tong, a muddler and a bar strainer. With this all inclusive set your boyfriend will become a pro-cocktail mixer in no time at all. So what are you waiting for? Look up some cocktail recipes online and get the party started! Buy this set for ₹999 on Amazon.

Now that you have bought your boyfriend a bar set, it’s time for you to whip up some delicious cocktails. The main ingredient in a cocktail is some delicious alcohol, so get your boyfriend a bottle of his favourite one. Our pick is a bottle of Tequila Blanco La Chica. This strong alcohol can give you quite a kick when taken in the form of shots and is the base of a variety of classic cocktails like Margarita and Tequila Sunrsie. Buy a bottle of this for ₹2,407 from madhuloka.com.

Buy him something that he can look at all the time. It’s a sneaky and smart way of ensuring that you stay on his mind 24x7. Buying him a canvas art print is a great idea as it’s a tasteful and cool gift which is sure to win him over. Postergully.com has a variety of cool and quirky canvas art prints for you to choose from. You get prints of artworks by famous artists, funny quotes, artsy celebrity photos, movie posters and funny sketches all under one roof.

Take your pick based on your boyfriend’s area of interest and taste. These prints are available in twelve different variants and sizes. You can get a mini print measuring 8 x 12 inch or a jumbo one which is 12 x 18 inch. Prices will vary according to size and type. The mini one costs around ₹1,499 and the large ones go for ₹1,999. The good thing about this website is that they give full credit to the artists. Browse for posters on postergully.com.

A romantic birthday dinner is incomplete without a glass of wine, and what would make that wine even more special is if you serve it in a customized wine glass. So on your next romantic night in, gift your boyfriend one from etsy.com.

This customised long stemmed wine glass will cost you just $8.50 which is around ₹622. You can also get one without a stem. Each glass is laser etched for a stylish and lasting look. They offer 11 different classic wine quotes which you can add to your glass to make it unique. This is a handmade item and one of a kind.

A pair of cosy pyajamas may not be the chicest item of clothing but sure is comfortable. Buy your boyfriend the Sweet Dreams Men Blue Printed Marvel Pyjamas from the brand Free Authority. This cool pair of cotton pajamas is printed with logos of Superheroes from the DC Universe, namely Batman, Superman, Aquaman, Flash, and Green Lantern. This pyajama has an elasticized waist with a snug fit.

Buy this gift and save it for one of those occasions when he decides to stay over at your place. This will thrill a DC fan to bits and rest assured that he will leave wearing it, which is fine as it can serve as relaxed casual wear when teamed with a solid colour tee. Buy this pair of pants for only ₹359 from myntra.com.

‘Netflix and chill’ing is the weekend mantra for the millenials. When you have had enough of parties and socializing, the best way to unwind is by opening a few beers or a bottle of wine, making a large bowl of popcorn and getting cosy on the couch with your significant other. Sites like Netflix and Amazon Prime is the best legal way to enjoy uninterrupted new and entertaining visual content on the net. With these platforms you can stream the latest TV shows, web shows, stand-up comedy, movies and documentaries without the fear of doing something illegal and without having to hide your VPN.

Get your boyfriend a Netflix or Amazon Prime subscription, so that you two can enjoy the weekend to the fullest without even having to step out of the house. A basic monthly Netflix subscription for one will cost you around ₹500. For ₹650 you get a standard and for ₹800 for a premium connection. For Amazon Prime you have to shell out around ₹999 for a yearly subscription which is less than ₹90 per month!

Guys are not very attentive about home décor or furnishings. But that does not mean you can’t do your bit to brighten up your guys area. Get him a colourful cushion cover to jazz up his room. My Happy Place 16" Cushion Cover from chumbak.com is sure to add a bit of sparkle to the drabbest of spaces. This 16" cushion cover is a blend of sturdy polyester & cotton. Measuring 40 x 40 cm, it fits any standard cushion. It’s priced at ₹595; buy it here.

For your boyfriend’s birthday do something special to surprise him. Take him for a pre-planned birthday dinner to a restaurant that serves his favourite cuisine. Make sure that he doesn’t have any other plans before you make your booking. You could pick a rooftop restaurant if the weather is good. Let the management know that it’s his birthday and surprise him with a birthday cake, balloons and a bottle of sparkling wine.

If his friends and family have plans for him on his birthday then you can’t steal him away for a cosy dinner. An alternative way to surprise him is by getting a birthday package delivered to his home or workplace. There are plenty of websites delivering cake, chocolates and flowers on a short notice. You can even get midnight and same day delivery if you want. Websites like fnp.com, winni.in and myflowertree.com delivers beautiful cakes, delicious chocolates and flower bouquets all over the world. So give your boyfriend a sweet birthday surprise with the click of a mouse or even through your mobile phone.

We are not suggesting that you travel the world after being together for just a month. But a short weekend getaway is a perfectly plausible idea. Book rooms in a resort or a maybe a home stay in a serene location outside the cityscape. Spending some time away from the hustle and bustle of the city will give you two, time to explore new facets of each other and also rediscover each other. If you can then drive down to your location. Make your bookings online through Makemytrip, Expedia or Yatra. That way you can avail discounts on hotel bookings as well. You can also try Airbnb.