10 Unforgettable Anniversary Gifts for Husband to Celebrate 6 Years Together

The tradition of looking back and celebrating the day people were united as a couple goes way back. Different customs prevailed over parts of the globe, but the purpose remained the same - to remember the time where it all began and celebrate the presence of each other in their lives. Over time certain symbols became associated with each year, the sixth anniversary being represented by candy for its sweetness, wood and iron for their strength and durability - indicating that the couple should celebrate the strength of its bond and also cherish the sweetness by rekindling the flames of romance.

After 6 years together and scrambling to outdo yourself at each successive anniversary, hunting down the most lusted after gadgets and the choicest accessories for men must have surely started wearing you down. Go back to the basics and look for the things that first attracted you to him. Find ways to tell him how this affection and admiration has grown over the years. Love letters, small tokens and caring messages and a wall art that symbolises your journey thus far are good options to consider.

An anniversary is nothing if not the celebration of your love over the years and there can be no better time to get in the mood for romance. After six years if the fire still burns strong then brilliant, find ways to fan it further, but if it has been reduced to glowing embers than it’s time to revive it. For that to happen a day is not enough, so start a week or even a month ahead, stop taking him for granted and revive the glory days of your courtship, the first date, and the first year of marriage. It will take some work but will be completely worthwhile.

As much as we race towards modernisation, it is not easy to shrug off traditional symbols, and why should you, as there is good reason they have stood the test of time. Iron, wood, sugar, turquoise and amethyst are all either traditional or modern symbols associated with the 6th wedding anniversary, each reminiscent of a different aspect of a marriage. These gifts are meaningful and will stay with him as reminders of each milestone you crossed as a couple.

What are manly gifts? Well, the usual, accessories, perfumes, spa vouchers, leather gloves, cool ‘manly’ gadgets, a great meal and what have you. In short, all the usual gifts you would give to a man. There is no harm in giving these too as they serve a purpose, he will need them at some point or the other, and a marriage is about enriching each other’s lives in small ways each day. Look for things he needs, has been intending to buy or things that will excite him. After 6 years you do understand him well and know that he will never ever wear or use certain things - so stop trying to veer him towards your tastes and just get him something he will enjoy.

Candy was the traditional gift people exchanged on their 6th wedding anniversaries before wood and iron came into the picture. As obvious, it denotes the sweetness that comes into a relation after years of being together - there may have been upheavals and moments of pain but you have learnt to balance the ups and downs and there is a sweet symphony in your marriage. Celebrate with chocolate and candy, cakes and puddings, toffee and caramels for this is indeed a sweet landmark for you as a couple.

Spoil him silly with homemade sweet treats, make a gift basket filled with all his favourite chocolate and candy or order a bar of personalised chocolate for him. Have a chocolate bar printed with a picture and a personal message for your husband. The chocolate is vegetarian and weighs about 170 gm, it will be shipped in a thermocol box with food grade dry ice to ensure it remains intact even in summer days. The bar comes in an anniversary gift box which can also be customised for an additional charge, and you have the option to include a personalised message leaflet inside the box for an additional charge as well. Order the Marriage Anniversary Gift - Large Size for Rs.795 on chococraft.in

Iron represents the strength of a relationship that has lasted 6 years, giving your man a gift made of or incorporating this metal signifies your belief that it is as durable and reliable as iron. Giving symbolic gifts to your partner makes them so much more meaningful, not to mention the fact that a gift made of iron will indeed be quite long lasting and serve as a permanent reminder of your bond.

There are so many gift ideas for things made of this metal - you can him things for the home such as photo frames, furniture, figurines, tools and cookware to name a few. This Burlwood Handle Pocket Knife on Etsy caught our eye for the sheer number of positive reviews it has. The stainless steel lock blade folding knife measures 4 inches when closed, 8” when open. It incorporates another 6th anniversary gift, wood, in its handle which can be laser engraved with a personal message. Order it from KnifeEngraving for about Rs.1,680 on Etsy.

Wood is the alternate anniversary gift for the 6th wedding anniversary. Like the modern gift of iron, wood signifies solidity, it’s strength and durability matching that of the couple that has put six years behind them together.

Either pair elements of wood with other symbolic gifts or buy him things like wooden desk sets, furniture, picture frames, wooden keepsake boxes, musical instruments, and if you possess the skill to carve wood, make him something yourself. Your husband may like this handmade clock made from a ¾ inch piece of solid oak wood. Not only is this a remarkably unique piece of workmanship that is sure to be a conversation starter at home or at work depending on where he chooses to place it, a clock is a very useful present. It measures 11 inches in diameter and has been stained with lacquer, giving it a soft sheen. The design has been engraved with laser and can be personalised with your names, with black spade shaped hands to indicate the time. The quartz mechanism has silent clock movement and there is a keyhole slot on the back to make it wall-mountable. Order it for about Rs.5,300 from StoryCabin on Etsy.

As you must be aware certain gemstones are also associated with each year of marriage, for the 6th anniversary amethyst is the tradition gemstone, turquoise has also been included as the alternate gemstone. Each of these has gemstones have been empowered with different properties - while amethyst induces creative thinking and calms the mind, turquoise is amongst the oldest known charms to ward off evil - it also symbolises wealth, friendship, strength and brings good fortune to its wearer.

Buy him jewellery or items of personal use embedded with these symbolic gemstones. We were charmed by these unique Turquoise Cufflinks by Mancornas; they also have a 5 star rating on Etsy based on nearly 3500 reviews. These handmade cufflinks will add eye catching detail to any formal ensemble your husband chooses to wear them with and are bound to catch envious glances. Order them for about Rs.4,040 on Etsy.

When you are celebrating a momentous occasion like your 6th wedding anniversary, going back to the moment where it all began can be a wonderful way to trace your journey as a couple. Photographs and personal mementos are great ways to do this.

Intersection of Love is a photo print that literally captures the moment your paths first crossed. There is so much memory and sentiment attached to this moment, years may pass but that moment doesn’t change. This photo print features yours and your husband names and the important dates in your relationship. The unframed (and unmatted print) measures 14 x 11 inches and costs Rs.4,886 on Uncommon Goods. A framed picture measures 22 x 18 inch and will set you back by Rs.8,143. There is an option to customise the frame in walnut wood to signify the 6th (also 5th anniversary) at a cost of Rs.11,400.

Gift items which can be used around the house on a daily basis are a sweet reminder of the milestone you have reached so think of daily use items you can customise for your husband. Mugs, customised bed linen and cushions are all great ideas. You can order something like this You Are Perfect personalised Cushion to tell him how fortunate you are to have him in your life. The cushion measures 16 x 16 inches and has a satin cover which forms a wonderful background for your picture. You can have your own picture printed on it along with a personal message. Order it on Archies for Rs.599.

Light up the most memorable moments of your 6 year journey through a beautiful table lamp. Customised products are all the rage and this lamp serves as a visual reminder of the wonderful times you have shared, displaying 5 pictures, one on each facet of the square shaped lamp. You can pick images from your wedding, a lovely holiday or even organise a special photo shoot to commemorate your wedding anniversary and use those images to create this. The lamp measures 5.5 x 5.5 x 5.5 inches and displays 5 images on an acrylic base. It is lit by a 5 watt bulb creating a soft warm glow, perfect for setting a romantic mood. Order it for Rs.1,499 on giftingnation.com

Is your husband a globe trotter who likes to keep a record of his travels? Gift him a beautiful leather bound travel journal to jot down his thought and impressions - and each time he is away from home and opens the book, he will be reminded of you. Its vintage look, engraved compass on the cover and anchor, and compact size make it a handsome and convenient travel companion. The unlined sheets pose no restrictions to his self expressions, merely serving as a blank canvas to record his adventures. Filled with 160 pages, the journal can be refilled with additional pages and also used to paste photos or ticket stubs. Buy it for Rs.450 on bigsmall.in

You have given him sentimental gifts, and you have given him thoughtful gifts, you have also bought him a ton of cool stuff he loves, but all you want to do this anniversary is get naughty with your husband. If the two of you have been indulging your naughty whims, one more game will be welcome, if not, surprise him.

Dice and Spice gives you lots of reasons to stay up all night. The kinky board game has 4 sets of cards, each in a different colour and category - truths, dares, 7-second challenge, and redeemable coupons. A roll of the dice determines which card you pick after which you follow the instructions on the card. If you’re intrigued, sample these: give your partner a lap dance while singing a song yourself, give your partner a hickey, flash a body part your partner asks you to, enact your favourite position, and lots more. Buy this dirty game for Rs.1,990 on Oye Happy.

Most couples are too busy caught up in work and daily chores to be able to spend quality time together. Your anniversary is a time to change that, even if just for a day. You are probably loving, caring and thoughtful to each other on most days, so instead of creating yet another lovingly made meal for him, turn on the heat and let your anniversary take a spicy turn. This would involve flirting and teasing, sexy lingerie, any seductive treat you are up to, and since candy is a traditional gift throw that in too - luscious strawberries covered in a rich chocolate, and any other decadent pleasure you can think of. Make it a no-holds barred day to remember that will make his head spin for days afterwards.

There is no fixed criteria for how much or how little you should spend on an anniversary gift, it really is entirely up to you. At the end of the day your gift should convey the affection you have for him and tell him how much you value him in your life, often a handmade gift does this perfectly. Gifts don't have to be elaborate parties or lavish dinner dates or even expensive presents; if you are good at making things or have the skills to make him a nice present go ahead and do it, your handmade gift will be a lot more intimate than most things you can buy. Consider all the skills you possess, be it cooking, crafting things or even a mastery of the written word, find a way to transform it into a memorable gift.