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Strike a Balance With Gifts and Attention
Giving gifts to your sweetheart is an important part of a relationship. Birthdays, anniversaries and special occasions, but also now and then just to tell her she is special and how much she means to you. The sentiments behind wanting to give her a gift are all great but when it comes down to selecting a gift things become slightly complicated. Choose gifts that aren’t too intimate or expensive as they may make her uncomfortable. During the early days of a romance such gifts will add undue pressure on her and drive her away. On the other hand something very cheap comes across as tacky, like you don’t care. You also want to steer clear of gifts that can be viewed as too impersonal, things you may give some buddy, pens for example. Simple, trendy, and understated gifts that strike a balance yet show her you care are the way to go.
On the other hand, all the gifts in the world cannot make up for your absence. Along with gifts you need to give her ample time and attention. That means striking a work-life balance. She doesn’t want you to quit your job and sit with her all day, in fact she is drawn to your ambition and passion for things. Give her an entire day in the week, plan fun activities for the two of you to do together, just spend time together and you will have a fulfilling relationship.
Things You Want Your Gift to Convey
1. You Pay Attention to Her Interests
Paying attention to her likes and dislikes is of the utmost importance for a new relationship. Noticing what she wears, products she uses, her hobbies, places she frequents, and also what she says. Girls like to share their thoughts and she will tell you plenty about herself but you need to pay attention to get to know her better. This doesn’t apply only when you want to buy her a gift, but is the foundation to build a lasting relationship.
The more you know about her, the easier it will be to make her happy and buy her things she will like, and it is an ongoing process that cannot start the day before her birthday. It’s the only way you will know if she will be thrilled with a practical gift she can use daily or if she is expecting flowers, mushy poetry and teddy bear holding a heart. If you are on a budget it’s a great way to give her something she will truly love without necessarily spending a great deal. Girls often value thoughtful gifts over expensive ones so, so go on, pay attention.
2. Your Caring and Thoughtful Side
Putting effort into buying or making things for her will show her how caring you can be. If you follow the above tip and pay attention you will have a fairly good idea about her interests. Gifts aren’t always about being the most expensive or popular presents. It can be as simple as showing interest in things she likes which you may not care much for. An example being her love for cosying up on the couch and watching movies together or playing board games. You may prefer to watch movies at a cinema and go out about town to have a good time. A meaningful gift would be you putting together her favourite movies and games and planning a day at home – the gift could be a pair of cosy fluffy slippers for her to lounge in but the effort you take to put together the movies, her favourite snacks and making time to do something you don’t really enjoy will mean the world to her; show her you are willing to go the extra mile.
3. Expressive of Your Feelings
Expressing your feelings is important too. She doesn’t always want to see your affection in just your eyes and if you are not sure how to tell her, gifts can convey the message. Happy relationships don’t need expensive gifts to nurture them, thought and care will suffice. She mentioned she has always wanted to try writing a novel? Sign her up for a writing course. She loves chocolate brownies? Bake some for her instead of just buying them. Notice how she always wears jewellery with turquoise? Buy her a pretty turquoise pendant. Showing that you care about things that are important to her will make any gift the perfect.
Ideal Gifts for New Girlfriend
1. A Book Club Subscription
Does she like to read, or wants to learn about a certain subject? A book club subscription is a great idea as it means a new treat will arrive at her doorstep every month, and she will be thrilled you paid attention when she was talking about how much photography interests her.
Find book club subscriptions that offer books based on her interest. If she likes to read a variety of books you can try the bigbookbox.com. They have monthly plans range from Rs.999 to Rs.2,999, and quarterly plans priced at Rs.2,999 onwards. Depending on which kind of plan you take, you get a box containing one to four books, bookish goodies, merchandise, edibles and printables; a real treat for any book lover.
2. A Set of Makeup Brushes
The girl who loves dressing and make-up would like nothing better than a neat set of make-up brushes. She would already have tons of makeup and a good set of brushes will let her play around with even more looks and styles.
Brushes are a great way to make the most of your make-up and she will like this 4Play Cosmetic Makeup Brush Set. The 12 piece set comes with a storage box and is great for basic makeup and even professional application. The brushes are made of high quality and high density fiber hair bristles. The set has brushes for cheeks, highlighting, eyebrows, inclined powdering, nose powdering, eye shadow application, eyeliner, small eyeliner and for concealer. Buy it for Rs.180 at Amazon.
3. Polaroid Snap Instant Camera
This one is for the diligent Instagrammer who enjoys taking pictures on the go. Give her something a little more exciting than taking pictures on the phone. The girl who enjoys snapping pictures of various aspects of her life for social media will enjoy the gratification that an instant camera provides. She can alternate between accumulating likes online and collecting real life prints of all the things that catch her eye.
The latest instant offering by Polaroid is a nifty camera with a minimalistic design, much like their iconic cameras of yore. Armed with a 10-megapixel sensor, it takes fantastic shots and the MicroSD card saves them digitally; you do have the option to print them instantly. There are 3 picture modes – normal, black and white, and a vintage sepia tone; there is also the option to add a Polaroid Classic Border Logo and a self-timer so she can run back and join the group shot. Available in black, white, blue and red, it is priced at Rs.9,724.
4. Sling Bag
Girls are rarely seen without some kind of tote, purse or sling bag. These aren’t only for keeping their things in but are important accessories that accentuate their look. Sling bags are more popular because they are comfortable to carry, perfectly accommodate all the essentials she needs on the go, and compliment a wide range of outfits.
When shopping for a sling bag keep in mind your girlfriend’s favourite colour and the style she favours. The size of the bag should also suit her frame. Although not essential, a useful feature would be multiple pockets and sections so she can better organise and access things she keeps inside.
This Kleio canvas sling bag with polka dots is suitable for casual use. It has one main compartment and a pocket on the inside, and closes with a magnetic clasp. Another useful feature is it comes with a 3 month warranty against manufacturing defects. It is available for Rs.499 on Amazon.
5. Scented Candles
Nice smelling things appeal to everyone so it won’t come as a surprise that your girlfriend too enjoys using scented candles. Finding the perfect scent that can calm her and help her relax is a dream come true. Candles are also considered romantic gifts; they have the ability to transform a room into a cosy haven. Look for candles that have delicate scents of rose, lilac, lavender and vanilla. Avoid picking up something overtly sweet since intense smells can have the opposite effect of soothing and can even irritate the senses. Smoke-free candles which burn for a long time are a good buy. You can try highly fragranced jar candle Hosley Lavender Fields. It retails for Rs.159.
6. Bedside Smartphone Vase
If you are looking for a gift that can remind her of you first thing in the morning when she wakes up, look no further than this bedside smartphone vase. The beauty of this is how it combines technology with nature. It serves as a convenient place to dock for her to dock her smartphone while it charges and she can use it to keep flowers by her bedside too. It is a wonderful way to brighten up a bedside table or even a desk. Made of glazed stoneware, it can be used to keep fresh flowers as well as dried ones. There is a groove for the phone cord so her phone can charge while it is docked. Find it at uncommongoods for Rs.1978
7. A Customised Sweatshirt
Customising a gift for the receiver makes it extra special for the receiver. You can give her a sweatshirt with something sweet, funny or festive written on it. Another idea is to get matching T-shirts or sweatshirts made for the two of you that you can wear when you go out together. If she doesn’t want to be twinning in public, never mind, it will be a cute idea to wear your matching shirts when you hang out at home together.
You can try printland.in to buy her a sweatshirt with a custom message. The website offers cotton sweatshirts in black, grey, navy blue that can be either be customised, or you have the option to make your own version as well. You can even pick from the multiple designs and messages they have. Prices range from Rs.649 to Rs.1,359.
8. A Perfume Sampler Set
Perfumes and fragrances are the perfect romantic gift to give to a girlfriend. But since you have recently started going out you may not entirely tuned in to which scents she likes. You could always buy a bottle of the fragrance she wears most often, or the latest scents available. Or you can give her a sampler set with multiple fragrances. The good thing about this is she can try out scents she may not have used yet, maybe find a new scent she likes, and the bottles are smaller than regular perfume bottles so she can carry them with her to use on the go.
Select a set with at least two to three scents. Make sure they are in keeping with her tastes – whether she prefers floral notes, fresh smells or deeper fragrances. You can try the W.O.W. Perfumes Be-You-tiful gift set that has 2 fragrances in 100 ml bottles. One is Aaliya, a long lasting fresh fragrance with notes of citrus and jasmine, and Scentsation, a sexy fragrance with floral and fruity notes. Both are ideal for trendy young girls. Buy it for Rs.955.
9. A Gift Basket
Gift baskets are fun to receive but also to make. There is the option to buy a pre-made gift basket but you can always make your own. That way you can fill it with all her favourite things – chocolate, tasty treats, gourmet jams, coffee or tea, a stuffed toy if she likes those, a personalised mug, a sweet note or poem and other similar presents. It is always exciting to receive a basket filled with different kinds of goodies ad your girlfriend will appreciate the time you spent to put it together. A single red rose or some flowers can add a romantic touch to it.
However, if the thought of putting together a basket flummoxes you, all is not lost. There are plenty of gift baskets that can be bought to suit different occasions and you can simply pick up one of these. Many will even give you the option to customise the contents and add a message. One option is the Valentine gift combo pack put together by Saugat Traders. The pack includes a romantic greeting card, one red rose, two bars of Cadbury chocolate, a teddy bear, and a bottle for a message. Order it on Amazon for Rs.879.
10. Bluetooth Speakers
Bluetooth speakers are something everyone should have, and if she doesn’t, that is what you must get for her. The great thing about these speakers is they do away with messy wires, are portable so can be taken to an outdoor party, can be placed virtually anywhere around the house, and are extremely simple to use. She will wonder why she didn’t buy one before. Look for speakers that are compact and portable, cool to look at, and hassle free to use. fills all these requirements.
The boAt Stone 200 portable Bluetooth speakers in orange fills all these requirements. It is waterproof so can be used outdoors or in the bathroom without her worrying about them getting ruined, has a durable rubber matte finish which also makes it shock proof, pairs easily with Bluetooth device, has a 30 feet range and 3W power output, and produces a clear, well-balanced sound to boot. The built-in-microphone allows hands free calls and online chatting and the battery lasts for 10 hours. It can also produce quite a loud output for a speaker its size and retails for Rs.1,299. Give it to her before the temptation to keep it for yourself creeps in.
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Focus on the Relationship
Things are exciting in a new relationship and you obviously want to impress your girlfriend and make her think highly of you; you may be tempted to shower her with gifts. It's best, however, to reign in impulses to buy overtly mushy, very expensive or intimate gifts as they are inappropriate for a budding romance. They may have the opposite effect and push her away. Instead, spend more time with her, get to know her better and also let her know you better. Gifts can come later, first build a strong relationship.