Blow Your New Husband's Mind On the Golden Night with These 11 Romantic Gifts for Him + Ideas to Bring You Closer on Your Wedding Day (2019)

It’s your golden night and you want to plan a romantic night for him? Brilliant! We’ve got all the best things lined up for you. Whenever we think of romance we only think of the man being the giver and the woman always in the role of the receiver. Who said that men have to always plan and carry out all the romantic gestures? Men also appreciate being romanced once in a while, and he’ll remember it forever if you display your romantic side to him on your golden night.

It isn’t so easy to come up with ideas, is it ladies? You are apprehensive about how he’ll react or whether he’ll like it, and most importantly you must be thinking what romance means to him. It could be something small like a surprise gift or you could pledge your everlasting love to him in the privacy of your room. We have a few ideas for you that’s guaranteed to show how much you love him, and not make him cringe with embarrassment.

Marriage is full of ups and downs. And we all know that once the novelty wears of both the husband and wife become busy in their respective careers and you might get caught up with the marital adjustments. Now is the time for you to turn your honeymoon period into a love nest. Don’t be shy ladies, leave your inhibitions at home and begin your marriage on a bold note – seduce your husband. He’ll find it irresistible. There are millions of things you can do to drive him mad – wear sexy lingerie, have a bottle of champagne delivered to your room, wear your signature perfume that drives him mad, even a light massage will do the trick. Whatever you choose to do, the results will definitely be in your favour.

You’re getting married and you’re focused on preparing for it and looking divine on your special day, but apart from this one other thought that is preoccupying your mind is your first night. Are you getting nervous and anxious just thinking about it? Don’t worry, it’s normal. Try not to get bogged down by all the things worrying you and causing the anxiety. You can lighten the mood on that day by giving him a corny or funny gift that will make him burst out with laughter. You could give him a packet of kisses chocolate or you could get him a pair of branded sneakers and gift it to him with a note saying: “from the time you walked into my life I’ve never been happier”. If that’s not what you’re looking for, you could prepare a ‘love basket’ filled with items like glow-in-the-dark condoms, masks, silk scarfs, and chocolates.

While your anxiety can stem from multiple things, it’s important you talk to your partner about it and make him understand what’s causing the anxiety. You don’t to jump right into the act, talk to each other and share what the expectations are from one another, it’s important to establish an emotional connect with your partner first. You could talk about anything under the world; it need not be just about that night. Express your gratitude: a small phrase like “thank you for being my husband’ will do wonders to your relationship.

In the modern day world certain romantic gestures have simply been forgotten. Something as simple as a handwritten love letter to your husband can be incredibly meaningful. There’s something very charming about handwritten love letters, and your husband will love the surprise and the thought you put into writing the beautiful love note. With this simple yet well thought out gift it will show him how much he means to you and how much you appreciate him.

You don’t have to be intimidated by the thought of writing a long letter. It can be short and sweet or long and heartfelt, it can take any form. Just get creative and have fun with it.

Start your journey together as a husband and wife with a fun, sexy and naughty gift basket. Break the ice with a special treat, prepare your own gift basket and surprise your husband with the goodies. Preparing a DIY romantic gift basket is a good way to show your husband that you thought about his likes and dislikes before putting it together. It could include things that might be necessary for you guys for the night like snacks, chocolates and candies. Apart from the essentials you can also add some playful items like lingerie, masks or scarves, massage oil, aphrodisiac infused soap, flavoured condoms etc.

Another route you can take is filling the basket with memories. You can fill up the basket with symbolic items that will take you on a trip down the memory lane – like fun pictures of the both of you, you can put all the cards and letters you guys exchanged during your courtship days, and also write a new love letter to him to add into the gift basket. Start your marriage the best possible way with these meaningful gifts.

Exquisite intimacy, passionate sexuality, and deep romance – you’ll get all this and more with Shunga Chocolate Intimate Kisses Aphrodisiac Oil. You will want to start your first night into your marriage with an invigorated libido, sensual love making, cuddling and pillow talk, you can achieve all this with Shunga Aphrodisiac Oil. This oil will not only delight you and your husband, it also tastes delectable. When used it creates a warming sensation that will set your senses on fire when it’s gently blown on or licked. This oil is presented in a boudoir worthy glass bottle; you can this jewel-toned oil from shycark.com for Rs.1,494.

Ignite your passion with the Kamasutra Honeymoon Surprise package. Every golden night deserves that extra little boost of confidence and stimulation to the senses to begin your journey of your life together. And that’s exactly what the Kamasutra Honeymoom Surprise package has in store for you. It has a passionate assortment of condoms, erotic gifts, games and some surprising extras items! It has a total of 16 different items for you and your husband to enjoy the long, passionate night you have ahead of you. Get it from amazon.in for Rs.574.

The key for any intimate relationship to succeed is to look and feel confidence in your partner’s company. Take your relationship to the next level with beautiful yet sexy lingerie like this Spice Sexy Mesh Babydoll lingerie. The hot pink mesh lingerie spells fun and flirty and will drive your man crazy. Featuring pink lace cups with adjustable straps, a black hem and matching thongs – this lingerie is perfect for your golden night. Order this online from That's Personal for Rs.2,099.

Do you feel butterflies in your stomach when you look at your husband? Shortness of breath maybe? Express what you feel for him through sexy, naughty, and loving messages. This 52 messages / sex coupons in a bulb, which is available on Etsy, is perfect if you’re shy but you still want to express the fantasies you have. It comes with 52 blank coupons that you can use to write your message, tie them with the little rubber bands and place them all in the plastic bulb.

As for what kind of messages you can write in the blank chits, you can write whatever you want. It could be something playful and innocent like can coupon for a picnic in the park or a movie date night. If you want to take the sexy and naughty route you can try something like coupon to play a game of strip poker or coupon to fulfill any sexual fantasy. You can buy this from Etsy for approximately Rs.1340 and go wild with it.

Celebrate your wedding day with an engraved bottle of Herradura Silver Tequila. End the day on a celebratory note and have a drink with your husband. If you want to skip the champagne and try something more substantial, Herradura Silver is perfect for it. What’s more, you can get a personal message engraved on this bottle. Get tipsy in style, get this bottle from a liquor shop near you. Prices may vary across states but expect to pay upwards of Rs.3,000.

Lighten the mood with this quirky and cute Airplane Luggage Tag. It’s also a subtle way of letting him know that from this day forward your marriage is going to be a land full of wonderful things. With this luggage tag you’re ready to hit the road for your honeymoon. Buy this from Big Small for just Rs.299.

A journal is an awesome idea to document all your firsts as a newly married couple. The first time you go house hunting, the first time you go grocery shopping, the first time you argue with one another. Create an everlasting family keepsake by documenting all the precious moments of your relationship in a journal. It’ll be treasured for generations to come.

Beginning with ‘The Early Years’ this journal has nine sections to create a personal memoir that captures precious memories like the stories of your first date, lifelong friendship, and other meaningful stories to pass on the pearls of wisdom to your children and grandchildren. Buy this from Uncommon Goods for Rs.1,952.

Show your husband what’s in store for him with this funny but useful gift – His and Her Bed Set. Men often complain that wives and girlfriends tend to hog the bed, and at first glance he will know exactly what he's in for! As soon as he sees the bed set he’ll understand the reality of marriage and who really gets all the space in the bed. Apart from the funny side to it, the bed set is super soft, super chic and it will give a whole new look to your bedroom. You can purchase this quirky set from Big Small for Rs.2,999.

Weddings are super fun, especially if it’s yours. You’re the center of attention, you look absolutely stunning in your wedding attire, and the best part of it all – you’re getting married to your dream guy. At the same time we know that it can be absolutely draining and exhausting at the end of the day, for the bride and groom especially. At the end of the day most newlywed couples just want to hit the bed and sleep. To avoid all the exhaustion, do yourselves a favour and book yourselves a relaxing massage to enjoy the night with your husband. A nice, long massage is a good idea to unwind, relax and set the mood for the night.