10 Gifts for Boyfriend Leaving Town And Tips To Survive The Distance(2018)

Staying together forever is the ultimate goal in a relationship but life is uncertain. The joy of being in relationship can soon subside when you get to hear that your boyfriend is going away. Whether he has to move because of work, studies or something else, the grief of parting can sometimes take a toll on you. To cope with that feeling you need to have a heart to heart chat with your boyfriend about everything that you are feeling. Do not try to shield your emotions form him, because it’s likely that he is feeling exactly the same. Sharing each other’ doubts and insecurities is one of the best ways to deal with the myriad of emotions that you will feel. Try to explain everything calmly, don’t lose your head. Screaming and crying won’t help achieve anything. But a calm discussion will.

To keep yourself from brooding and obsessing over the situation, engage in as many activities as possible. If you are a student then concentrate on your studies. If you have free time after school or college, then get yourself enrolled somewhere, learn something new. You could learn a new language, join a dance class, learn pottery making, writing or art. Find out where your creative inclination is. You could even do some voluntary work at NGOs. Teach underprivileged kids, spend some time with the elderly. If you like animals then join a pet rescue organization. If you are a working professional then you would probably be busy with work. But that can get boring and repetitive as well. So take time out to meet up with friends, read books and keep yourself happy.

Just because he is going away doesn’t mean that you two have to break up. Discuss the status of your relationship before he leaves. Maintaining a long distance relationship is hard but not impossible. So figure between yourselves how you plan to do it. Having a conversation beforehand is the best way to go about it. Assuming things and drawing up conclusions in your head will only cause you unnecessary tension. Trust your boyfriend, be honest and open to him. Things may not always go your way but let’s not always assume the worst. Avoid drawing up conclusions from social media posts and pictures. Things are not always what they seem. If your mind is filled with doubts, then the only way to clear them would be to have a honest conversation about it.

A religious memento always helps bring the feeling of peace and contentedness. Gift your boyfriend a religious figurine or symbol that he can turn to in times of need and one which will also remind him of you. Gift him the Red Bag Brass Gautam Buddha Statue. This magnificent statue is made of brass and reconstituted turquoise and coral. Measuring 6" x 4.75" x 3" it’s small enough to keep on oneself at all times. He can even keep it on his desk or nightstand. It weighs around 1.220 kg. Buy it for ₹1180 from Amazon.in.

A simple object of daily use can get a new meaning in someone’s life when personalised with a memory. Gift your boyfriend a photo mug with a picture of two of you together. It’s something that he will probably use every day and that’s what makes it so special. So make everyday special with a photo mug imprinted with happy memories that is bound to make him nostalgic and happy at the same time. There are plenty of websites where you can find personalized photo gifts. We recommend Vistaprint.in for their product quality and assured delivery. The mugs they use are of good quality ceramic; microwave and dishwasher safe. Prices of the mug start at ₹225 for a one side print and ₹300 for a wraparound print.

A framed art of your geographical coordinates is a gift which is romantic and unique. It’s an artistic way of letting him know that the distance is just physical, but your love can overcome that. Etsy.com has a lot of different styles of art pieces which you can get personalised with your co-ordinates.

Pick a place which is significant in your relationship.You can put co-ordinates of the place where you first met, or where he first proposed if you want. It could even be a holiday spot that you two visited once. This art could be a memento of that place and time. Get the Framed Heart Shaped Map with co-ordinates from Etsy.com. It’s a hand-made item, made to order, measuring 5x5 inches. Just add you request in the ‘note to seller’ box at the time of checkout. Buy it for $ 29.00 which is around ₹2145.28.

A promise ring is a sign of commitment between two people. Don’t confuse them with engagement rings which are a promise of marriage and legal binding. Unlike engagement rings, promise rings can be given at any point in the relationship as a sign of exclusivity in and mutual trust. Get the Yellow Chimes Me & You Stainless Steel Sterling Silver Plated Ring from Flipkart.com. Give him one while you keep the other. Promise rings are usually worn on the ring finger of the left hand by people who are not married. But you can wear it on any finger or even on a chain around your neck. A set of two rings are priced at around ₹333.

If your boyfriend is someone who is powered by caffeine and always on the go then a sleek and handy travel mug is the perfect gift for him. The House of Gifts Stainless Steel Car Heater Mug is not just an ordinary travel mug. It’s fitted with a Car-USB Charger whose Socket converts into a USB plug, making it suitable for use with computers and power banks. The charger helps keep hot beverages piping hot and when used in the car can even heat up cold beverages. It can be used to carry everything from coffee to soup. It comes with an easy to hold handle and well fitted lid with a sipper feature. Buy it from Amazon.in for ₹680.

A toiletry kit is an essential travel accessory. It’s extremely inconvenient to open the luggage time and again to take out things like toothbrush, soap and towel, which becomes necessary if it’s an overnight journey. A toiletry kit saves one from all that unnecessary effort. The one that we have picked is from Styleys. This toiletry bag or travel kit is a sleek military style accessory made of durable polyester. This toiletry bag has an attached hook for easy hanging, and sections to neatly pack in toothbrushes, paste, shaving items, soap, deodorant, shower jail, after shave , hand towel and everything else that a man might need to keep himself looking presentable. It’s priced at ₹499 on Amazon.in.

If your man is travelling somewhere with a cooler climate, then he would definitely need some warm clothing. A cozy sweater is just the thing to keep him warm and comfortable when the weather outside is chilly. If you have the skills then you can knit one for him. It will take some time though and if knitting is not your forte then we would suggest that you buy him one.

Myntra.com has a large collection of cosy cardigans and jumpers for you to choose from. You could pick this 100% cotton one from Forever 21. It’s black with white stripes on the arms, a round neck and a ribbed hem. It’s priced at ₹1679. If you want something a bit warmer then go for this woolen black one from Esprit. This classic pullover has long sleeves and ribbed hem. Buy it for ₹4999.

A handy carry-all is a very useful gift and there are plenty of options available in the market for you to choose from. To save you from all the confusion of picking out one we have gone ahead and done the job for you. This Travel Bag with Detachable Sling Strap from Bad Habit is one stylish travel accessory! This roomy bag is made of denim and measures 43x34x14 cm. It has one main compartment with an inner zip pocket for storing valuables. Buy for the very reasonable price of ₹1124 on ajio.com. If your boyfriend has a more sporty style then you could pick this black duffel bag from Hummel. Made of polyester, it’s waterproof, has 1 zip pocket, 1 side zip pocket, 2 handles with a velcro closure and 1 detachable sling strap. Buy it for ₹1259 from Myntra.com.

This next gift needs no introduction. The Amazon Echo - Smart speaker with Alexa is the groundbreaking device that has changed the way we use technology for our personal need. Featuring the virtual assistant Alexa, this unique machine lets us get work done just by the power of our voice. Alexa is a cloud based voice service which can play music, make calls, check weather and news, set alarms, control smart home devices, and much more via Wi-Fi. The Amazon Echo has powerful speakers which produce immersive 360° omnidirectional sound, deliver crisp vocals and dynamic bass response. It can connect to various apps to play music on demand, order food and even book a cab. It allows for hands free calling and messaging. You can even control lights and other compatible devices with this amazing contraption. Buy it for your boyfriend for ₹6999 from Amazon.in.

One thing that your boyfriend is going to greatly miss apart from you, when he is away is home cooked meals. But it’s never too late to learn to cook and you can help him in his endevours by buying him this little gift. Home Cooking by Hema Subrmaniam is filled with easy recipes that your boyfriend can master with the tiniest bit of effort. This book contains 50 delicious recipes with pictures which can be easily whipped up using ingredients found in every household. Buy it for ₹600 form Amazon.in. If your boyfriend is a health freak then gift him the The Healthy Cookbook: Simple Homestyle Recipe by Bonnie Scott. Priced at ₹960, this book contains 150 delicious home style recipes easy enough for even children to follow.

When your boyfriend is away, keep yourself busy and occupied. Stressing about the future of the relationship is something that is a waste of valuable time and energy. Communicate with him; call, message and video chat. If you prefer the traditional way then sending handwritten letters is also a great option. But always remember one thing- a relationship requires work from both parties. So if you are willing to put in the work then he should too.

If you feel at any point that your efforts are being ignored, then you should let him know it. Brooding and thinking about it won’t help you. But sorting out your issues will. So don’t overcomplicate things and have a talk about your issues. Holding on to a relationship which is not working out is never a wise idea. Have a discussion with your boyfriend and figure out what you both want or need. If he is willing to continue then well and good, otherwise having an amicable break-up is the only plausible solution.

Whether you decide to continue with the relationship or end it, you cannot obsess over it day and night. The best way to deal with a boyfriend who is departing is moving on with your life. He is going away for a reason-whether career related or something else. But you shouldn’t drown in self-pity and wait for his return. Continue to live your life the way you would. Concentrate on your studies or work, maintain an active social life, catch up with friends, participate in family events. If you are finding it hard to concentrate on things then you could see a councilor who will guide you through the process. But that may not be necessary if you surround yourself with positive people and keep your schedule full.