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Tips on What to Choose as Gifts for His Folks
Here are some easy and simple gift ideas for you to select the best gift for your boyfriend's family.
Give Them Delectable Gifts
As your relationship with your boyfriend evolves, you become closer and more involved with his inner circle, including his family and close friends. This also means, that on special occasions or otherwise, you should give gifts to express your affection to his family and his folks. This can be stress-free, provided it comes straight from your heart.
If your boyfriend’s parents like sweets, you could perhaps consider baking some cookies using one of your mom’s best or favorite recipes and present them beautifully wrapped, or perhaps select a healthy assortment of dry fruits and nuts in a pretty box. However, it is best to discuss your options with their son before getting any edible gifts to avoid any dietary or allergic challenges.
Experiential Gifts for the Adventurous Couple
You have a wide range of options to choose from; when you want to gift something. While selecting a gift for his folks, you can consider gifting them an experience, which will make leave mark on their hearts for time to come. Options that involve active experiences like camping, hot air balloon rides, paragliding, etc. will bring you closer to each other, reviving some special memories from their heydays, but also stir a feeling of gratitude within to be able to enjoy such wondrous and exciting experiences together.
Assorted Gift Hampers are a Safe Choice
With the choice of a gift hamper or basket, you can explore different avenues, which match their individual personalities and preferences. With some underlying concepts like their favorite sports or a certain kind of activity they enjoy, like camping or swimming or barbeque duos, you’d then select items surrounding these themes in terms of pocket blankets, multi-purpose tools, portable travel accessories, swimming kits, grilling accessories, portable barbeques, tools and spices, etc.
10 Winning Gift Ideas for Boyfriend's Parents
Handpainted Tea Set
This beautiful tea kettle or coffee pot with hand-painted tea-coffee cups set is designed and decorated so that it bring a vibrant and modern touch to their kitchen. This lovely Miah Decor Tea Set Ceramic Handcrafted Cups & Kettle Gift Set comprises of two cups, a kettle and a tray in a cheery yellow, blue and white pattern. There are other colours and design available too if you prefer something different. It can be the best gift for his parents for their tea-coffee moments together or to display and use during their tea parties. The set includes a pair of cups, a kettle and one tray all made of ceramic, measuring 2.5 x 2.5 in cups, 3.5 x 0.5 in saucers and 8x1 in tray (all in inches). The set is priced at Rs.912 on pepperfry.com.
Healthy Trail Mix Hamper
Health and fitness are major concerns now and gifting trail mixes as gifts has become quite trendy these days. These are nothing but a fusion of old-age healthy snacks of dry fruits with new age combinations of granola, nuts, dehydrated candies and sometimes chocolates also. Gift his parents this wonderful Healthy Trail mix hamper. These mixes are prepared keeping nutrition in mind, loaded with unsaturated fats, protein, fiber, antioxidants, vitamin E and other essentials. Raw, roasted, unsalted or unsweetened, these mixes are as easy to munch on and carry around as they can get. This set of 5 packs of trail mix that includes a healthy combination of dried fruits, dehydrated candies pertaining to morning mixes, detox mix, protein mix, health and berry mixes is priced at Rs.1,420.
Family Picture Frame
This set of 14 photo frames in black can be a thoughtful gift from you to your boyfriend’s parents, which can hold a series of their favorite memories and their children at one place, to be viewed at leisure. The frames are structured such that they can be hung both vertically and horizontal with adjustable secure S-type hooks. The set includes 14 frames made of synthetic wood, in black, hanging hardware with each frame, 1 bubble leveller and 3 pin non-trace seamless plastic nails with an easy installation guide. The set is priced at Rs. 1,200.
Air Purifying Plant Gift
Life in an energy efficient, modern apartment or building can have its unintentional side effects, with restricted air flow to begin with. Limited air ventilation, modern furnishings and/or chemicals used in building these can increase indoor air pollution and give rise to many health conditions like asthma or sick syndromes. As per NASA, house plants can help absorb the toxic air from enclosed spaces and hence serve as the most cost-effective, natural and healing tools. This anthurium pink plant in an off-white ceramic pot is known as the flower of love made of beautiful heart-shaped leaves and flowers. It is easy to care for and low maintenance indoor plant, apt for air purification as well. It is priced at Rs.1,350.
Radio Docking Station
The Philips AJ7030D/12 Docking Speakers with Clock Radio and Alarm features an output of 6 W RMS, comes with 2 Satellite Speakers, volume control, and frequency range of 87.5 to 108 MHz. It measures 144 x 62 x 144 mm and weighs 0.5kg. Its smartly designed spring loaded docking port can accommodate iPod or iPhone without additional adaptors, has a gradually ascending alarm volume to make rising in the morning a gentle and refreshing experience. It also has a dual alarm system that can be set for the couple to wake up at different times from each other. They can enjoy falling asleep to their favorite music with a sleep timer, with a time limit of up to 2 hours. This radio has FM digital tuning with a preset option, an MP3 link for portable music playback and is priced at Rs.2,229.
Electric Blanket
This electric blanket with a remote control has a heating coil made of wire, sewed into the fabric, thereby producing heat. Designed with due consideration to provide gentle and consistent warmth, come day or night, it only requires 15-20 minutes to reach the best temperature without any additional heating power generation. The fabric of the blanket is polyester and measures 160x140cm. With a molded corner shape, this soft and cozy blanket has an auto overheating protection, with a wired remote control with an LED indicator. It comes completely insulated and water sealed, with 3 heat settings, 2 pin power cord which is 7ft long and is priced at Rs. 2,398, where you buy one and get another blanket free.
Grilled Sandwich Maker
This jumbo grill sandwich maker is a user-friendly and practically viable choice for a simple, smart and efficient breakfast gadget. With a large plate for 4 slice grill, oil collector tray to dispose of excess oil, a thermal fuse for added protection, a non-stick grill surface and a temperature control knob, the sandwich maker carries a 2-year warranty and also includes a cleaning spatula. It is priced at Rs. 2,885.
Kitchen Wall Clock
An award-winning creation, the Nextime Chef Pendulum Kitchen Wall Clock is a cleverly designed wall clock made of a tin with a whisk hanging below. It weighs a mere 150 gm and would look really chic in their kitchen, although it is such a conversation starter they may be tempted to place it somewhere else! This designer wall clock won the Discovery award in Paris in 2009 and is priced at Rs.3,250 on justforclocks.com.
Herbal Slippers for the Couple
The soles are full of touch-sensitive nerves in the feet with an estimated 100,000-200,000 of them. With these comfortable and plush Ballerina Herbal Warming Slippers, your boyfriend’s folks will bless you for their spa-like experience, each time they wear the herbal slippers! Made for a lovely resting experience, these super softies come with removable insoles, filled with aromatic lavender buds and thermally conductive flax seeds.
In winters, these insoles can be microwaved, and then be put back inside the slippers for a relaxing and heat-enhanced lavender scented comfort. In summers, the insoles can be cooled in the fridge and then be used for heat relief. Each pair of slippers is priced at Rs.3,432 and is available in different sizes.
Interesting Reads and Gorgeous Coffee Table Books
Books make for a lifetime of comfort and companionship for most people. Apart from reading pleasure, they make for an evolved perspective on life, self-nurturing and growth. If the couple enjoys reading, then you can select some interesting collection of reads for them from a varying genre of philosophy and self-help, spirituality, autobiographies, history and politics. This is best discussed first with your boyfriend, to understand their individual likes and interests. You’d also choose to gift books in e-book format, paperbacks or hardcover format. Amazon has a wide collection that you can select from.
Bonus Tip: Choosing Gifts Depending on the Stage of Your Relationship!
Choosing the right gift for your boyfriend’s parents is as complicated or simple, as the level of your relationship with each other! Here are a few tips to help you make the right choice.
- Early days: When you’re in the nascent stage of getting to know one another, you’ll wonder if it is really necessary to gift his folks when you meet them. If you’re the kind of person who doesn’t like visiting people empty-handed, then it's best to go small. Your choice of gift could range from a display poem in an elegant frame on a fancy stationary paper, or flowers and candles which would liven their spirits up. Edible gifts like a budgeted yet fine wine, candies or recipe attached delectable gift packs are good to give as well.
- A progressive relationship: Getting closer gradually but steadily means you become a notch closer to his folks too. This requires gifts that are appropriate for his parents, with a direct connection to their personalities and interests. Books of their topics of interest, CDs of their favorite music albums or singers, entry passes or tickets to a musical concert or a play they’d like watching, home décor items or quirky gifts, accessories, picture frames are simple, easy on the pocket and thoughtfully useful options.
- Getting there: When you find yourselves heading for the long haul, it’s best to consider gifting his folks, just like you’d gift your parents. Have a chat with your mate and come up with a combined gift from both of you, which could include moderately priced to expensive gift options like new furnishings, gift vouchers for couple spa, weekend holidays or gourmet dinner for two, electronic items or their hobby specific essentials like a golf set, yoga and meditation kits, etc.
- The all-time wonder stage: If you go visiting them during holidays, festival time or get to be a part of their family picnics, then think of ,some fun gifts, like family board games, card decks, outdoor sports that are portable and fun, stuff that will everyone bond with each other would be appropriate and appreciated. As you get to know them better, you’ll be able to identify the perfect gifts for them.
- Dos and dont's stage: In addition to the gift giving gesture, the way you present yourself before them or mingle with them will make a huge difference to your relationship with his parents. It is best to be appropriately dressed and being on time when you go visiting. It’s good to be aware of their likes and dislikes and hence avoid getting into any embarrassing situations later. Be warm and welcoming, it is ok to be expressive of your viewpoints, but only to the extent of a polite conversation and not really cross any unseen check posts! Be honest without being impolite, be helpful and mindful of their wishes and thoughts.
- Awkward silences: Should there be any awkward moments during your visit where there are conflicting conversations between him and his parents, don’t jump into it and display your emotions for their son. Stay neutral and try keeping things calm.
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Make a genuine effort
You could be meeting them for the first time or may have a few conversations tucked under the belt, but you hardly ever get to really know people till you've spent a certain amount of time with them. If you're feeling nervous, pause to think about what's going on in their head too - they are also meeting someone new, a person who is of great significance for their son so they may be slightly apprehensive too. Make a genuine effort to get to know them and try to pick a gift they will like.