You Can't Make Him Stay But You Can Get a Gift for Your Boyfriend When He is Leaving: 10 Gifts to Make Up for the Distance (2019)

A departing lover can be the cause for a lot of grief. But circumstances can cause two people to move away thereby causing a temporary pause in the relationship. Saying goodbye is difficult but it doesn’t mean that your relationship is over. Have a talk about your future before he leaves. Discuss your potential plans and listen to him talk about about his. Exchange your contact information and write down his new address. Keeping in touch is important if you plan to continue with the relationship. So keep the channels of communication open.

Your boyfriend is not leaving for good, but it may be a while before you see him again. Therefore before he leaves make sure that you spend some quality time together. Go for dinners, spend some time being intimate with each other, and watch movies; meet each other as often as you can. If possible, go for a short getaway or a long drive. If the weather is good then you can have a romantic outdoor picnic. Spend as much times as you can with each other. Technology can hardly make up for simple human contact.

Discussing the status of your relationship may be a bit difficult at this point, but we would suggest that you do it anyways. You and your boyfriend may or may not have the same expectations from the relationship. You need to talk about it and clear it out before he leaves. If you two plan to continue with the relationship then plan out a strategy to make it work as long distance relationships need a lot of dedication and hard work. If you decide to call it quits or take a break, then say your goodbyes. Try to have an amicable breakup without unnecessary drama or fighting.

Before you decide on a parting gift for your boyfriend, you need to consider certain factors. Firstly, pick your gift based on his destination. The climate of the place he is travelling to plays a major role in the selection of gifts. If he is travelling to a place with lower temperatures you could gift him warm jackets, gloves, hats etc. If the place he is traveling to has warmer temperatures then gift him something light and breathable like linen shirts and slippers. If he is travelling somewhere that’s mountainous then hiking boots are a great choice.

How long is he going to be gone for? Is he just going away for a few months or is his stay going to be longer? The duration of his stay is another factor which will help you decide on a gift for him. If he is going away for a long time then get him something to remember you by like a personalised photo mug or a photo keychain. If he is just away for a short period then gift him something that will help him in his travels like a power bank or travel thermos. A handy travel backpack is also a very useful gift. Get him one with lots of pockets and compartments for all his travel necessities.

Your boyfriend’s lifestyle and daily activities will also help you decide on a good gift for him. We are assuming you more or less know your boyfriend’s daily routine. So give him something that makes life a little easier for him. For example, if your boyfriend likes a cup of freshly brewed coffee first thing in the morning, then get him a portable coffee brewing machine. If he is a sporty guy, then you could get him a fitness tracking device or a pair of running shoes. Your boyfriend may be away from home, but helping him keep his lifestyle unaltered is one way of making sure that he stays happy and contented.

We have put together a list of a couple of innovative gifts which are not just perfect for saying goodbye, but also for keeping you on his mind forever.

Gifting someone a watch is always a great idea as the chances of the person not liking it are very low. You know your boyfriend better than anyone, so pick a watch that goes with his personal style and daily activities. Our pick is the Casio G-Shock Analog-Digital Black Dial Men's Watch - GA-120-1ADR (G346).

This super cool sports watch has dual display which means that you get both digital and analogue at the same time. It has a built in stop watch, alarm with snooze, dual time zone, calendar etc. Its mineral glass case is magnet and shock resistant. It’s water resistant for up to 200-meters, has a resin band, LED auto light switch and weighs just 73 gm. Buy this super useful watch for ₹7,995 on Amazon.

Technology has made communicating with loved ones who are far away a lot easier. But text messages and emails can hardly recreate the romance of a hand written letter or love note. While sending letters by post is not really a practical idea, we have an innovative alternative. Gift your boyfriend a box or jar full of ‘Open When’ letters.

‘Open When’ letters are a bunch of hand written love notes that come with specific instructions. For example, you can write a letter with the instruction ‘Open when homesick’. If you are unsure about what to write, then do some research online. There are plenty of blogs and tutorials with step by step instructions on how to write these letters. Longdistanced.com has a detailed post about how to write ‘Open When’ letters.

Instead of being angry with your boyfriend about going away from you, show your support. He is not going away for good and even if he is, it doesn’t mean that your relationship is over. To keep yourself on his mind forever and show your appreciation for his decision, get him this Wherever You Go Stoneware Mug from Pavilion Gift Company. This beautiful coffee mug has an important message that you two should always remember. On top of that its dishwasher and microwave safe. With a capacity of 22 ounces, it’s big enough for any beverage. Buy it on Amazon for $14.99 which is around ₹1,098.

Homesickness is a natural part of being away from home for a long time. But what makes the ordeal a little easier is a care package full of things to make his life easier and a bit more comfortable. The Away From Home Snacks and Essentials Care Package in Mini Laundry Gift Basket is the perfect gift basket for a person who needs some hearty goodness in their life. This package consists of everything that a person may need when they are feeling down and out.

The basket contains Animal Cracker Cookies, Pretzel Twists, Cracker Jacks with Prize, Gold Fish Crackers, Room Air Freshener, Listerine Mouth Wash, 2 Tide Stain Remover Sticks, 2 NutriGrain Breakfast Bars, 2 Nature Valley Granola Bars, Famous Amos Chocolate Chip Cookies, Rice Krispy Treats, Woolite Fabric Softener; Hand Sanitizer, and 2 Grandmas Old Fashioned Cookies all packed into a cute mini laundry hamper.

Buy this wholesome package from amazon.com for $59.97 which is around ₹4392.

Turning to religion is often the most rewarding feeling in the time of need. If you are worried about your boyfriend’s safety while he is travelling then religion can provide you with the peace of mind that you need. Lord Ganesha is known for his wisdom and also as the remover of obstacles.

Gift your boyfriend a Ganesha figurine from amazon.in. ACTC Ganesha Sitting Statue measures 10.5 cm x 9 cm and is made of polyester stone. It’s lightweight and portable. It’s will not only serve as a religious icon but also be a symbol of your love for him. Buy this beautiful statue for ₹325 from amazon.in.

It’s said that green is the most soothing colour for the eyes. Therefore keeping a plant helps ease the optic nerves and helps restore tired itchy eyes. An indoor plant not only brightens up the room but purifies the air. Therefore a plant would make quite a fitting gift for a departing lover.

Get your guy The Bonsai Plants Beautiful Live S Shape 6 Year Old Ficus Bonsai Tree. This miniature tree needs little or no maintenance and only occasional watering. To keep the leaves fresh and green, you need to spray them with water and that’s enough! This plant doesn’t grow beyond a certain height and is therefore perfect for small spaces. Buy it for ₹1,099 from amazon.in.

There are two kinds of girlfriend—the one who complains and the one who shows support. We are assuming that you would like to be the second one. A great way to show support is by making sure that he has a good night’s sleep and the Oh, Susannah Go Do Pillow Case will ensure that he does.It comes in a standard or queen size and fits most pillows. This 127 GSM luxury microfiber pillowcase is comfortable and has the message ‘Go and Do’ imprinted on it via a permanent dying process Unlike cheap rubber printing, this technique does not cause the paint to come off or fade. Buy this inspiring pillow case from amazon.com for $17.99 which is around ₹1,317.

According to the ancient Chinese custom of Feng Shui, wind chimes can help regulate positive energy and vibes in the home. Wind chimes also make great gifts. The Petrichor Large Premium Wooden Finish Brown Wind Chime is not just a beautiful piece of home décor but also soothing to the senses. The tinkling melody created by the metal pipes of the chime when wind blows is extremely relaxing and easy on the ears, therefore helping create a positive and happy atmosphere in the house.

The wind chime has a height of 60 inches top to bottom with the longest pipes measuring around 25 inches. Gift this beautiful wind chime to your boyfriend to ensure that his happy disposition stays intact forever. Get it for ₹1,600 from amazon.in.

Don’t get bashful while expressing your feelings to your loved ones. We understand that putting into words what you feel is difficult so we have the perfect gift to help you convey your feelings to your guy. Don’t underestimate the power of a cuddly soft toy. If you think these are just for babies or mushy teenagers then you are absolutely wrong.

A cute soft toy can melt anyone’s heart and make them go ‘awww’. Our choice is Bearington Collection Collection Beary Blue Without You Miss You Plush Teddy Bear. This cuddly plush toy is made of washable faux fur and comes with a hanky, an embroidered envelope with the words ‘miss you’ on it and wears a blue satin bow.

This 10" toy has bean bag weighted feet with jointed arms, legs and head which enables you to position it the way you want to. Buy this super cute toy for $15.99 which is around ₹1,171 from amazon.com.

Text messages and emails are done to death. Why not think of a more innovative way to get your message across to your love? Do it the way old sailors did by putting your message in a bottle. This beautiful wooden box from Oye Happy contains a beautiful vintage style corked bottle with a message inside along with a classic engraved pocket watch. This set looks like something out of a fairytale and spells classic romance. Buy this classic gift for your guy for ₹1,590 from Amazon.

If your boyfriend is away for a long period it gets difficult to get on with life without seeing him. But giving up on the relationship is not a good idea. You have to understand that there is a valid reason for your boyfriend’s departure and you need to be supportive of him.

Communicate with him regularly. Keeping in touch is of utmost importance when you have a partner who is always on the go. Gifts are well and fine, but there is nothing better than good old communication. If talking on the phone is difficult due to bad connectivity or some other valid reason, then write him emails. Love can withstand a lot and distance is just a small obstacle.