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Things to Keep in Mind Before Choosing the Gift
Plan Beforehand and Order in Time
Plan before time on what you are giving him on the day he is leaving, or before he leaves. Or what you are doing special before he leaves the country. The budget should be planned. Note down all the details of what you will do before he goes as a memorable day spent or gift you will give or dinner you will have. You may not have much time left with him so plan it well to avoid regretting things later.
The gift that you are planning to give to him should be with you before the day he goes. In order to do so order 1 or 2 weeks prior to the date when he is leaving so that you do not have to be without a gift if there is a delay in the delivery of the gift. Bear in mind whether it's something you want him to see before he goes and packs and takes with him, or it's a gift you want him to open after he leaves.
Give Him Things He Can Use at His New Place
The gifts you are planning to give him should be of use to him. Do not plan on giving anything that is just for the sake of it. Give something that he can use at his new place so that his work is of shopping there alone is minimised. Also, when he has things about his living space gifted by you, it will give him more reasons to think about you.
You can give him gifts of his day to day use as grooming related gifts, toiletries, or you can give him something of house related things such as wall clock or mug, or you can give him travel related gift which makes him travel hassle free. You can also give him personalised gifts that will remind him of the time you two were together in one place.
Gifts to Remind Him of You
Choose gifts that will remind him of you. The gifts you give should be useful to him so that the minute he looks at the stuff he is being reminded of the time spent with you or that you care for him. Gift him something with both your favourite moments, a symbol of your love such as a wall clock with your photo, or a coffee mug with any quote, or a gift that eases out his work when he is alone, a gift to make memories even when he is away from you.
10 Perfect Gifts for When Boyfriend is Leaving the Country
Unique Gifts for Him
Magic Mug
The Magic Mug is a great gift that will remind him of you. The 3D Rose magic mug, when filled with hot liquid, transforms from black to white, magically revealing the message 'best boyfriend ever'. It is a white ceramic mug with black outer surface with the image printed on both sides. It is microwave-safe and needs to be hand-wash to preserve the print on it. The capacity of the mug is 11 oz and the dimensions are 10.2 x 7.6 x 9.5 cm. The mug weighs 345 grams so he should be able to carry it easily in his luggage. This gift will not only be a started gift for his new home, it will also it will remind him of you and bring a smile on his face. It is available for Rs.1,356 on Amazon.
Love Scroll
Worried he will meet someone new at his new place? Not when he has such an adoring girlfriend waiting for him back home! The Love scroll is a great gift that will remind him of you from time to time. The YaYa cafe love scroll is a canvas love scroll, handmade on canvas art fabric and the text is printed on the fabric. It has a thread attached to it to enable him to hang it up on a wall so he can see it everyday. Titled 'world's greatest boyfriend', the scroll goes on to list all the amazing things about him and will surely make his day everyday. It is available in various sizes, ranging from 15 x 20 inches to 24 x 32 inches. The prices range from Rs.649 to Rs.1,199. You can buy it from amazon.in.
Laptop Table
Your boyfriend may not have a lot of furniture waiting for him at his new place so you can get him some lightweight and portable pieces that can serve multiple uses. Such as this laptop table which is a great gift. The SRS laptop table is brown in colour and weighs 2.39 kg. The dimensions are 45 x 28 x 8 cm and the table is of superior quality and very sturdy. The table is portable and very light weight. With 2.4 out of 5 stars customer ratings this is a perfect gift that he can carry with him anywhere and work comfortably. It is available for Rs.1,199 on Amazon.
Leather Journal
Gift him a beautiful journal that can be used by him to write all his experiences that he will gain on his trip. It can be used to keep a record of his own memories and he will be able to share them you later as well as with others. The Leaderachi Genuine Hunter Leather & Handmade Paper Diary is covered with genuine hunter vintage leather and the inner pages are of handmade kraft paper. The journal is very convenient to carry. The journal has 100 pages and measures 7 x 5 inches. This is a gift that will be his companion during his travel as he can make a records of all the things he did and saw during his travel and it will act as a memory of his time in a different country. It is available for Rs.999 on amazon.in.
Photobook or Scrapbook
Give him an album in which he can save his memories from his trip and relive them for a lifetime. Alternatively, you can fill some of the pages with your fondest memories and give them to him as a keepsake. The Jaipurcrafts Webelkart DIY Scrapbook is a good quality product where the inside pages are made of high quality black card. The book consists of 30 pages and each page can be used on both sides. The capacity of the photobook totally depends on the sizes of photos being pasted in it and you can use a mix of large and small prints to make the most of the space provided. The outer cover is handmade of redwood to create a lovely photo album. This gift will allow him to collect all his favourite memories in a place and remember them for years to come. It is available for Rs.599 on Amazon.
Personalised Gifts for Him Before He Leaves
Wall Clock
Want to stay on his mind through the day? Give him a personalised wall clock with a picture of you, or one with both of you, to remind him of the great time you spend together every time he looks up to see the time. The Presto personalised wall clock is a personalised wooden hardboard printed clock with personal photo and space for a short message from you. The size of the clock is 16 x 11 inch and it is a hanging clock. It is made of 3 mm MDF board without glass with a wooden frame. It runs on a single AA size pencil battery, which is not included, so remember to buy it before giving this to him. It is available for Rs.2,222 on Amazon.
Personalised Photo Name Collage
When your boyfriend is going away to a far off place, one the best gifts you can give him are memories, and what better way to do that than through pictures? A photo collage is a great gift that will remind him of all his special moments with his loved ones, specially you. The Unique Stuff Personalised Photo Name Collage is multicolored. You need to send 67 photos via email to the supplier after placing the order and a 16 x 20 inch , heart shaped photo collage will be prepared and printed for you. The primary material used is wood and the heart shape that will symbolise your love. The instructions for personalisation are given on the website. It is available for Rs.1,150 on Amazon.
Branded Utility Gifts for Him
Philips Multigroom Trimmer
Grooming products are great gifts as they are something he will use all the time. Give him the Philips MG7715/15 13-in -1 Face, Hair and Body Multigroomer Trimmer. With this he can trim and style his face, hair and body with 13 tools. There are 8 combs for trimming face, hair and body. The run time is up to 120 minutes of cordless use per charge. There is no-slip rubber grip for improved comfort and control and it is showerproof for convenient use in the shower and cleaning. He has to charge it for 1 complete hour before use. This is a perfect gift that you can give him for his grooming so that he can maintain a good and stylish look. It is available on Amazon for Rs.3,499.
Fastrack Watch
Watches are timeless gifts and the best part is that you can always give him a new one even if he already has one, or even a few of them. When it comes to watches the choice is very wide as you will get any number of watches for every budget. However, we recommend the Fastrack Analog Blue Dial Men's Watch - 3021SL05. This Fastrack wrist watch has blue colour dial, the case shape is round and the dial glass material is mineral. The band colour is black and material is leather. It is a analog watch with movement type as quartz. The water resistant depth is 50 metres. It has 2 years manufacturer warranty on manufacturing defects. It also enjoys a full 5 star rating on Amazon where it is available for Rs.1,438. This is a special gift that he can wear daily and whenever he looks at it, it will remind him of you. Buy it here.
JBL Wireless Headphones
Everyone must have a good set of headphones when they are travelling, ideally a wireless set because who needs all that tangles mess on the move? If he doesn't such a set, then give him JBL T450BT Extra Bass Wireless On-Ear Headphones with Mic which will also allow him to take calls. These are an amazing gift that he can use whenever he is not working or travelling. The JBL wireless headphones have a pure bass sound and 11 hours of battery life. The call and music controls on fitted on the ear cup for easy access. These headphones are flat-foldable, lightweight and comfortable, making them perfect for travel. It has Bluetooth 4.0 and measures 15 x 7.6 x 18.5 cm and weighs only 145 grams. This is a great gift that he can use anywhere and make complete use of it. It is available for Rs.2,899 on Amazon.
Amazon Echo Dot
The Amazon Echo Dot will not only make his work easy but also remind him that you care. This is a hands-free smart speaker that he can control using just his voice. It connects to Alexa – a cloud based voice service to play music, make calls, check weather and news, set alarms, control smart home devices, and much more. It includes a built-in speaker and can also connect to external speakers or headphones through Bluetooth or a 3.5 mm stereo cable. With seven microphones, beamforming technology, and noise cancellation, Echo Dot hears him from any direction-even in noisy environments or while playing music. Call or message anyone hands-free who also has an Echo device or the Alexa App. Simply ask "Alexa, how do I set up calling?" to get started. It is available for Rs.2,449 on Amazon.
Have the Tough Conversation About Your Relationship Before He Leaves
Avoiding the Topic is Not Going to Help Either of You
You cannot be in denial that he is leaving, or pretend everything will be the same as before. You can't just stop him, and he cannot stay. This is a very tough situation in a relationship and you can not be mum about it and avoid the topic and behave like nothing is going to change.
A huge part of the relationship is going to change. The change will not be easy, it will be very difficult. So instead of keeping quiet about the situation and avoiding the topic of his leaving. You will have to talk about it. You will have to have a discussion with him about what about the relationship and where it will stand with his leaving the country.
Leave “But” Sentences Out of It
You will have to be assertive in this situation and leave all the "ifs" and "buts" at home before meeting him for the discussion. It is going to be difficult but you cannot get into the discussion in a negative frame of mind. Things like 'we can work on the relationship but will it work with this long distance?' This implies you have already passed the verdict that it is not going to work so you do not have to put effort into it. Instead you can use sentences like 'it is going to be difficult and we are willing to work on the relationship'. This is a more positive response and your man will also feel positive about the relationship.
Don't Make it Harder Than it Already is
It is difficult for you that he will be leaving and you have to be there without him. At a time you will think was it really necessary for him to go. But remember it is the same for him. This is a difficult phase for him too. He also has to cope up with the same situation. So do not be dramatic about the situation and avoid the topic. Make it easier for him to talk to you about the situation. Guy's give up on seeing their girl crying. Hold in those tears, be strong and welcome the conversation.
Agree on Common Goals
Now finally when the discussion is done and you are at the verge of a verdict to carry on or to let go, be ready to face either decision. Even if you are not willing to let go and admit that the relationship may have to come to an end, try to control your emotions and follow logic. Do not hold grudges if you are heading for a break up. And if you are agreeing to work on for a long distance relationship just give it your best shot.
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Be honest with yourself and willing to accept facts
A long distance relationship is not everyone's cup of tea and you may have never entertained the idea of being in one. In situations like this it is easy to start laying blame but instead of getting angry that he is leaving, take some time to evaluate your own thoughts and feelings. You must be clear about your own frame of mind before sitting down to have the big talk with him. If it's something both of you feel you can work on, give it your very best, and if you need to move on, try to part without hard feelings.