Shower Your Love and Affection on Your Sister. Heartwarming and Thoughtful Bhai Dooj Messages to Make Your Sister Feel Special and Cherished (2020)

The origin of Bhai Dooj lies in a few Hindu mythological legends, and is quite popular in Nepal and some other countries besides India. Celebrated on the last day of the 5-day long Diwali celebrations, Bhai Dooj is celebrated to honour the beautiful relationship between a brother and sister. According to popular belief, when Lord Krishna went to meet his sister after he slayed the demon Narakasura, he was given a warm welcome by Subhadra with a ceremonial tilak on his forehead, flowers and sweets, and this is how the festival came to be. While the first word represents the adoring address to a brother, "Dooj" refers to the second day after the new moon that marks celebrations. Bhai Dooj essentially honours the bond between siblings and is enjoyed with a lot of love, gifts and sweet treats.

India being a land of diversity, festivals are celebrated differently in different regions and may perhaps be known differently as well, however the fervour and excitement is always the same everywhere! In North India, Bhai Dooj is enjoyed during the Diwali celebrations, while in West Bengal, Bhai Ponta is observed on the first or second day of the Kali Pujo festival. Bhau Bheej/Bhav Bij/Bhai Beej is celebrated by the Marathi, Gujarati and Konkani communities while in Andhra Pradesh and Telengana, Bhatri Ditya/Bhatru Dviteeya or Bhaghini Hastha Bhojanamu is celebrated. In Nepal, observed as the second most important festival after Dusshera, Bhaitika is celebrated on the 3rd day from the Tyohar by the Tharu, Chhetri, Newari and Bahun communities.

Given the hectic pace of life, many of you hardly have time to devote to your families, let alone yourselves. And when siblings are married or away from each other owing to professional/educational requirements, it can be a bit challenging to stay in touch regularly. However with just a little bit of initiative, you can bridge all these gaps. Try staying connected with your sister virtually if distance and time are a constraint. With technological advancements keeping in touch is so easy and strengthens your bond with your family and friends as well. Be mindful of the special days in each other’s lives and make your sister feel special by sending her gifts or organising things she likes, even when you aren’t there to do it for her. If ever there comes a time when your sister needs you, be it during a family conflict or a health challenge or a professional upheaval, be there for her, counsel her, talk to her, so that she knows she isn’t alone. Steer clear of any family politics regarding property issues, disputes or difference of opinion. Ensure your bond with each other is always over and above any family conflicts or issues.

Here are some beautiful wishes to celebrate a bond of love with your sister:

Siblings are there for each other, providing support through life’s ups and downs and as buddies, laughing and enjoying the merry days. Here are a mix of pensive to witty quotes that celebrate your connect with your sister:

Siblings are a blessing, for not only are they family but can be great friends too! To know that there’s someone you can rely on, who knows you in and out closely and hold you strong in times of distress, someone who’s family and confidante at the same time, sisters are all of that and more! Here are some inspiring messages of love and endearment for your sister on Bhai Dooj:

Depending on how your relationship has been with your sister, the bond between siblings can be exasperating or adoringly special! From having a weird vibe of aggravating you to using all her might to make you smile when you’re down and out to loving you fiercely and loyally, sisters can be your best friend and confidante like no other. Need a special way to wish your sister on Bhai Dooj, get some celebratory messages and wishes here to brighten her day:

Do you remember the day when she first held your hand and took you to climb the kitchen counter and reach the cookie jar? or when your mother introduced you to your little sister for the first time! It doesn’t matter if your sister is elder or younger to you, what does is the unconditional love and affection you both share for each other. Celebrate your sister this Bhai Dooj and gift her a piece of jewellery just as unique, beautiful and special as she is to you! Here’s a necklace set from Studio Voylla ethnic Chittor collection, a miniature portrait that’s hand painted and set amidst a beautiful array of beads and kundan work makes this necklace set no less of a masterpiece! Made in red and gold and styled as a classic jewellery piece, this necklace is made in a geometric design with red and white beads and gems and comes as a set of a necklace and a pair of earrings priced at ₹ 3,224.00.

A handbag is one item that’s not only of great use but also unique in the way its styled. There are ample designs that bring out a blend of tradition and modern fashion to the table. Depending upon which style your sister prefers or one that suits her personality, get her a hand bag which she can use either daily or for special occasions and be reminded of the beautiful bond both of you share with each other! Aldo Viremma Solid Black Medium Handbag brings in a perfect blend of style and utility and is a must-have in any woman’s wardrobe. Made of high quality synthetic material, it comes with a zip closure and double handle straps that make it easier to carry. With a solid pattern that makes it absolutely chic, this handbag has ample space to fit her essentials easily. Gift her this gorgeous buy from Tata CLiQ, priced at ₹ 7,999.00.

Decor items or show-pieces make any house look beautiful and brighter. From an assortment of antique clocks, to lampshades, frames or wall hangings, the options are limitless for gifting. For Bhai Dooj you can get your sister a personalised showpiece that will not only make her surroundings more stylish but also special, each time anyone looks at it! Here’s a crystal showpiece that you can get for your sister and personalise it with a picture of you and her or one that she likes the most along with a text to make it even more special. Measuring 80 x 80 x 80 mm in dimensions, this lovely crystal gift from Winni is ideal for gifting this Bhai Dooj. Priced at ₹ 3,069.00.

Like flowers, sisters make life beautiful and fragrant with their unconditional love and deep affection. Celebrate your bond with your sister by gifting her The Body Shop’s Petal-Soft British Rose Premium Collection that brings with it the freshness and beauty of the English countryside with its floral surprises. Inclusive of a shower gel, body butter, body scrub, hand cream and a pink bath lily that’s made of recycled plastic, this Petal-Soft British Rose Premium Collection is enriched with the essence of England’s handpicked community trade roses. Priced at ₹ 3,355.00, the set comes gift wrapped in a luxury bow adorned gift box and you can order it from The Body Shop.

Chocolates are everyone's favourites and if your sister loves them too, then you can get her a chocolate gift hamper that includes an assortment of white, dark and normal chocolates, store brought or homemade. Better still, get them customised for her in different shapes and make it even better! Priced at ₹ 899.00, here comes an assortment of homemade chocolates weighing 850 gm from Ferns N Petals in a beautiful patterned gift box, adorned with a golden bow that’s bound to bring a smile to your sister and warm her heart.

It doesn’t take much to brighten up your sister’s mood or let her know just how special she is to you! With a small gesture from you and a little bit of effort that relays your love and affection for her, your gift can make her day on Bhai Dooj! And if you take enough time to figure out just what she likes, something that’s also exclusive and trendy, something meaningful more than it is expensive, then the smile you’d see on her face will be priceless! Here are some unique gifting options to explore during this festival season: